'You don't need a title to be a leader' - Mark Sanborn

I played the agony aunt to a friend of mine recently. While telling her that her life is not a total waste, I quoted from the book by Mark Sanborn. For anyone who want motivation in small pieces, "You don't need a Title to be a Leader" is a must-read. It is a small book and does not take much time. The writing style is simple and full of real-life examples that one can relate to. Sanborn made it a point to select very common people with uncommon qualities. Even though a summary might not do justice to the book, I would like to highlight few portions which might tickle your thoughts.

To begin with, a leader is defined as someone who wishes to shape his/her life and positively influence the life of others. This kind of leadership can be exhibited by anyone anywhere.

The best take away from the book is Six Principle-based Skills that everyone needs to acquire:

(1) Self Mastery

You needs to master yourself before you expect anything from others. Self-mastery is based on 3Cs: character, competency and connection.

(2) Focus

Focus and determination lead you towards success. You need not be smarter or more qualified. If you focus on right things and are determined to face whatever hurdles come your way, you are sure to reach wherever you want to go.

(3) Power with People

A true leader acknowledges that his/ her accomplishments are due to the efforts others. Leaders 'earn' their followers through their actions, unlike managers who enforce compliance on those who work 'under' them.

(4) Persuasive Communication

Leaders are always understood by their audience. They communicate in order to understand and to be understood.

(5) Execution

Leaders have high Implementation Quotient. They have results and accomplishments to show as proof of their thoughts and ideas.

(6) Giving

Leaders always give and serve. They expect the least from others.

The book is sprinkled with examples of ordinary people who through their actions are bringing about a change in the environment around them. They are not exactly changing the world, but they sure are making a difference to the lives of around them.

The book sure makes you start thinking 'Am I a leader? Or do I just have a title?'

Trip to Sringeri and Horanadu

Sringeri Sarada Devi and Horanadu Annapoorneswari are two temples places are a must-see for those visiting Karnataka. The journey through green patches is in itself an divine experience.

Bangalore to Sringeri is 325 Kms and takes about 5 1/2 to 6 hrs for experienced drivers depending on traffic. The earlier you start the better. Route: North Bangalore -> Hassan -> Chikmagalur -> Bhadra Wildlife sanctuary -> Sringeri

The drive through coffee estates and spices plantations is soothing to all senses. The road is ghat with many hairpin bends. You can see many small waterfalls and rivulets and picturesque places. At some places you can stop for a short snack or pictures.

Sringeri is the first Matha founded by Adi Shankaracharya. There are two main temples in the temple complex - one of  Sarada devi and one of Lord Virupaksha. The history of the place and other details can be viewed here: http://www.sringeri.net

The beautiful temple complex and veda pathasala  is separated by Tunga river which is full on fish. You can feed the fish though fishing is strictly prohibited. The atmosphere is calm and air is quite pure with a lingering aroma of herbs. The compound of veda school resound with veda chanting by boys of all ages. 

The administrative office is near the temple complex and one can easily get rooms there unless it is a major festival day. Food is provided by temple authorities as well. But I recommend Holla Mane  near the administrative office which serves pure vegetarian food in banana leaves.

Horanadu is 50 Kms away from Sringeri. You have return to a point named Sollebaill before you take a detour to Horanadu. You can see small shops selling fresh spices on the way. They are a good buy. 

Horanadu has a beautiful Annapoorneswari temple is surrounded by hills on three sides and river Bhadra on the fourth side. The location and the deity are unique. More about the history: http://srikshetrahoranadu.com/

Not many choices for stay and food, but you forget small inconveniences when you are soaking in the calm and green atmosphere. 

Enjoy the drive back to Bangalore unless it is night time. Beware of snacks and small animals on the road if you are travelling after sunset.